You are not resisting love.
You are loving in resistance.
You are not grieving the precious losses.
None of us in this whole world is capable of resisting love.
We are simply addicted to holding on to the memories of loss.
We like the ownership of the pain that comes with the loss.
We take pride in the pain as it is so intimate and can not be taken away by anyone.
The loss becomes our identity & love feels like a distant relative living in a foreign country.
The losses can be measured as the following:
Loss of trust
Loss of time
Loss of family
Loss of money
Loss of interest
Loss of respect
Loss of goodwill
Loss of intimacy
Loss of playfulness
If only we decide to go through the 5 stages of grieving with a healer, we can certainly open ourselves up to receive and give love in coherence.
Let us look at the 5 stages of grieving briefly:
Denial: The dismissing, disbelief, or numbness (“This can not happen”).
Anger: Rage and pain turn outward or inward (“Why me?”, “Who should be blamed?”).
Bargaining: Attempting to regain control through “if-only” or “what-if” statements (“If I do this for us, will you change that for us?”).
Depression: The deep, quiet, intense sadness and realization of the loss’s magnitude.
Acceptance: Reaching a state of calm understanding, not necessarily “satisfaction” but making peace with the past memories and accepting of the progress you are making.
Once we complete grieving, our physical body, mental body, and emotional body get ready to love and be loved passionately.
Hence, the interventions are a must to do the deep healing work.
You will be doing the heart, body, and spirit healing gently in a super safe ecosystem with the help of a healer and become free from the addiction to pain.
Love is the best gift we received from God, and none of us deserve to be deprived of it.
How about you give all your pain to your healer or therapist?
She will alchemize the pain into love and integrate it back into your nervous system in the form of overflowing love so that you don’t even remember how loss looks like anymore.
Our “Relationship Intimacy & Harmony” program is designed exclusively for individuals who believes in love but deeply hurt, hence consumed by resistance or indifference.
If this feels personal to your situation, drop us an email at cognitiveexcellenceintl@gmail.com or call us at +91 8105157086 to book a 1:1 direct consultation.